Everyone has different tastes. I found my 2022 M4 Competition xDrive to be exactly what the OP is describing - too perfect. And too perfect translates to boring to drive, at least that was how I felt about that particular BMW.
I preferred the exterior of that car (I like my Blackwing, but the M4 nose and hood are awesome to me, even if deplorable to most), I definitely preferred the interior of that car. Fit, finish, paint - all superior on the BMW, no questions asked. Performance? That car in auto and AWD will scorch my manual Blackwing on regular streets.
But I never smiled driving that car (or any other car) like I do my Blackwing. Every single time I drive my Caddy, it makes me happy. And yet the car is less than perfect in every area except one - driving enjoyment. Here, it is perfect... for my tastes.
I hope every person hones in on what is that car for them. It is a very satisfying feeling.